[Trigger warnings: slurs, homophobic slurs, homophobia, bullying]

Anonymous asked:

Tavbro, the boys at school toss around the word f*ggot like it’s nothing and talk about people they dislike doing homosexual acts that any gay person our age wouldn’t do until they’re sweeps older. Is there any way to tell them to stop without making them direct this sort of stuff at me? While I am gay, it’s not cool at all that they do this.

wELL, tHAT IS, kIND OF HARD,
bECAUSE WHILE YOU WANT TO, sTAND UP FOR, wHAT IS RIGHT,
yOU DON’T WANT TO, aNTAGONIZE THEM,
bECAUSE THAT COULD LEAD TO THEM, hURTING YOU, }:(
sO WHATEVER YOU DO, mAKE SURE THAT IT KEEPS YOU, sAFE,
sAFE FROM BOTH, pHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL PAIN,
aND IF YOU EVER FEEL, eNDANGERED,
tHEN FIND A WAY, tO PROTECT YOURSELF,
eITHER BY USING ADULTS FOR HELP, oR FRIENDS FOR SUPPORT,

yOU COULD TRY TALKING TO, aN ADULT, aT THE SCHOOL,
aNYONE WITH, sOME KIND OF AUTHORITY, oVER THE PEOPLE SAYING THINGS,
yOUR FRIENDS COULD ALSO, rEPORT THE PROBLEM,
bECAUSE THE MORE PEOPLE, wITH A PROBLEM, tHEN,
tHE MORE LIKELY, SOMEONE WILL ACTUALLY, dO SOMETHING,
sO YOU CAN LET THEM, hANDLE THE ISSUE, wHILE KEEPING YOUR NAMES, oUT OF IT,
tHIS IS PROBABLY, tHE BEST IDEA,
bECAUSE IT IS THE JOB OF, tHE FACULTY, tO KEEP YOUR ENVIRONMENT SAFE,
aND THAT MEANS, sAFE FOR EVERYONE,
iF THERE ARE SLURS BEING, sAID TO OR ABOUT PEOPLE, tHAN IT IS NOT SAFE,

bUT MAYBE THEY WON’T, dO ANYTHING, fOR SOME REASON,
tHEN YOU COULD TRY, tO TALK TO THESE PEOPLE,
wHILE HAVING FRIENDS WITH YOU, tO BACK YOU UP, aND HELP TALK,
bECAUSE SOMETIMES, iT’S HARD TO, uH, fIND YOUR WORDS, oN THE SPOT,
sO EVEN IF YOU PLAN, a WHOLE SPEECH, sOMEONE COULD ASK SOMETHING THAT THROWS YOU OFF,
iF YOU CAN’T ANSWER, tHEN, mAYBE A FRIEND CAN,
aND THE MORE PEOPLE, yOU HAVE, tHE LOUDER YOUR VOICE IS,
(nOT YOUR, lITERAL VOICE, bUT MORE LIKE, tHE MEANING OF YOUR WORDS,)
(i GUESS IF YOU ALL SPOKE AT THE SAME TIME, yOU COULD BE, lITERALLY LOUDER,)
(bUT i DON’T THINK THAT WOULD BE, uHH, pRODUCTIVE, aT ALL,)

Anonymous asked:

Tavros, I am a homosexual in a place that’s not totally accepting of that sort of thing. My matesprit lives far away enough that I can’t see her very often. Whenever I see a heterosexual couple kissing or hugging or any display of affection, really, I feel like there’s something wrong with me. What should I do?

fIRST OF ALL, tHERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU,
a LOT OF PEOPLE, mAY TRY TO SAY THAT THERE IS,
bUT THEY ARE THE ONES, tHAT ARE WRONG, iN THIS SITUATION,
tHERE CAN NEVER BE ANYTHING WRONG, wITH BEING YOURSELF,
aS LONG AS, wHILE BEING YOURSELF, yOU DON’T, uH, hURT ANYONE,
oR HURT YOURSELF, eITHER,

i THINK YOU SHOULD TRY TO FIND, sOME KIND OF, sUPPORT GROUP,
oR A CLUB, oR A FORUM,
rEALLY ANYTHING LIKE THAT, aT ALL,
tHAT HAS PEOPLE THAT ARE LIKE YOU, oR SUPPORT WHO YOU ARE,
bECAUSE THINGS ALWAYS LOOK WORSE, iF YOU’RE SURROUNDED BY HATE,
sO THE AREA YOU LIVE IN, mAY BE AFFECTING YOUR SELF ESTEEM,
aND YOU NEED TO COUNTER THAT, wITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS, aND SUPPORT,

jUST REMEMBER, tHAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE,
tHERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE, iN YOUR UNIVERSE AND OTHERS, tHAT ARE JUST LIKE YOU,
aND FEEL WRONG LIKE YOU,
bUT YOU ARE NOT WRONG, aND YOU ARE PERFECT, jUST HOW YOU ARE, }:)

i THINK i HAVE SAID BEFORE, tHAT i AM PROBABLY NOT, uH, tHE BEST AT ADVICE,
i AM MAYBE NOT THE WORST, eITHER,
bUT i AM DEFINITELY NOT, sOME KIND OF PROFESSIONAL,
aND EVERYONE HAS, dIFFERENT OPINIONS ABOUT WHAT IS, a GOOD IDEA,
aND SOME PEOPLE KNOW MORE ABOUT CERTAIN TOPICS, tHAN OTHER PEOPLE,
(i AM SURE MOST OF YOU, pROBABLY KNOW MORE THAN i DO, hONESTLY,)

i KNOW THAT IT CAN BE, sORT OF SCARY, bUT,
iF i EVER GIVE SOME KIND OF, bAD ADVICE, oR IF YOU THINK OF, a BETTER IDEA,
yOU COULD REBLOG THE POST, aND ADD YOUR THOUGHTS,
oR SEND AN ASK, aND i COULD POST IT,
sO THAT THE ASKER, gETS MORE VIEWS ON THE TOPIC,

rEALLY, tHE MORE ADVICE THERE IS, iS PROBABLY FOR THE BEST,
bECAUSE PEOPLE REALLY LIKE, cHOICES, i THINK,

tHIS MAY BE CALLED, aDVICEtAVROS,
bUT THAT DOESN’T MEAN, nO ONE ELSE CAN GIVE ADVICE,
sO IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO ADD, tO ANYTHING i SAY,
tHEN YOU SHOULD JUST, uH, aDD IT, rEALLY,
iF YOU WANT TO, i MEAN,

[Trigger warnings: #abuse]
[#update, #spoilers]  

((Ah you know, that is a very good point, I should have thought of that before saying anything. My apologies to everyone :< ))

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[Trigger warnings: Alcohol, underage drinking]

Anonymous asked:

So, um, I’m a non-drinker for health reasons, and my friends are pressuring me into going to prom and the afterparties. I know that if I get pressured into drinking, I’ll end up punching the person who’s pushing me, and it’ll probably escalate, possibly to the point I’m in jail. How do I get the point across to my friends without sounding like a potentially homicidal psycho? And do you have any tips for dealing with pressure in healthier ways?

wELL i THINK THAT IF YOUR FRIENDS DON’T LISTEN TO YOU,
aND IF THEY ARE, pUSHING YOU TO DO THINGS, yOU DON’T WANT TO DO,
tHEY ARE MAYBE, nOT SUCH GREAT FRIENDS,

tHOUGH, i ALSO THINK THAT SOMETIMES, iN THESE SITUATIONS,
tHE OTHER PEOPLE JUST WANT YOU TO, hAVE FUN, aND ENJOY YOURSELF,
aND THEY AREN’T BEING JERKS, oN PURPOSE,
iT’S JUST THAT THEY HAVE MORE FUN, dOING CERTAIN THINGS,
sO THEY THINK IT WILL BE THE SAME, fOR YOU,
iF YOU CAN SHOW THEM, yOU CAN HAVE FUN IN OTHER WAYS,
tHEN, tHEY WILL PROBABLY, bACK OFF MORE EASILY,

bUT i THINK YOU COULD HAVE FUN AT A PARTY, wITHOUT DRINKING,
sO IF YOU CAN CLEARLY STATE AT THE START, tHAT YOU DON’T WANT TO DRINK,
pEOPLE WILL PROBABLY, bE OKAY WITH THAT,
oR THEY SHOULD BE,
(tELL THEM THAT IT IS MORE FOR THEM, tO HAVE, oR SOMETHING,)
aND IF YOUR REASONS AREN’T TOO, pERSONAL,
yOU COULD ALSO TELL THEM, tHOSE REASONS,
aND ASK THEM TO PLEASE, nOT FORCE YOU TO DO IT,
tHEN YOU CAN STILL GO, wHICH WILL MAKE YOUR FRIENDS HAPPY,
aND YOU CAN HAVE, a GOOD TIME, tHE WAY YOU WANT TO,
wHICH WILL KEEP YOU HAPPY,

oR MAYBE YOU CAN FIND OTHER PEOPLE, wHO DON’T WANT TO GO,
tHEN ALL OF YOU, cAN HANG OUT, aND HAVE YOUR OWN PARTY,
tHAT COULD PROBABLY, bE A LOT OF FUN, }:)

Anonymous asked:

Hi, um. Im really scared that im going to be alone forever. I mean, No-one has really shown interest in me and i have never felt interested in anyone. I really have no clue on my sexuality. I feel like a sexuality trainwreck and idk. I know its illogical but i just feel like I might just.. live unmarried and/or without a significant other forever. I hate not feeling interested in someone. It feels like im missing a part of life that everyone else i know has been able to feel before. :/

wAIT, iS EARTH LIKE aLTERNIA,
wHERE YOU NEED TO FILL YOUR QUADRANTS, aND PASS ON YOUR GENETIC MATERIAL,
oR ELSE YOU GET CULLED?
bECAUSE i DIDN’T THINK IT WAS, bUT MAYBE i AM WRONG,
bUT IF THERE ARE NO DRONES, wHO WILL HUNT YOU DOWN, iF YOU DON’T FIND A HUMAN MATESPRIT,
tHEN i DON’T SEE WHY YOU NEED TO EVER GET ONE,
tHEY MIGHT BE NICE TO HAVE,
bUT i DON’T THINK YOU SHOULD BEAT YOURSELF UP, iF YOU DON’T GET ONE,

hUMAN SEXUALITY IS REALLY WEIRD,
(tHERE ARE SO MANY HUMANS, wHO DON’T KNOW THEIR OWN SEXUALITY,)
(i THINK THAT SHOWS THAT, i’M NOT THE ONLY ONE, tO FIND IT WEIRD,)
(aND ALSO CONFUSING,)
hAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF ONE CALLED, “aromanticism,”
bECAUSE MAYBE, yOU ARE ONE OF THOSE,
iT IS WORTH LOOKING INTO, aT LEAST, pROBABLY,

oR MAYBE, yOU ARE JUST NOT READY FOR RELATIONSHIPS YET,
wHICH IS OKAY, nO MATTER HOW MANY SWEEPS YOU ARE, rEALLY,
pEOPLE REACH THAT TIME, aT DIFFERENT TIMES,
aND SINCE YOU DON’T HAVE, tHE THREAT OF DRONES CULLING YOU,
yOU REALLY HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO DEVELOP THOSE FEELINGS,
sO IF YOU DON’T FEEL ANYTHING, dON’T RUSH IT,
aND DON’T TRY TO FORCE YOURSELF, tO FEEL SOMETHING,
tHAT WOULDN’T BE GOOD FOR YOU,
aND IT WOULD BE VERY FAIR, tO YOUR PARTNERS,

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All questions so far have been answered and I would like to thank you all for following me and trusting in me with your questions .

tHIS IS A, rEALLY GREAT BLOG THAT YOU GUYS CAN ALL, cHECK OUT, 
iT HAS A LOT OF, pOSITIVE REMINDERS AND POSTS, tHAT YOU CAN LOOK AT,
aND THEY GIVE ADVICE, tOO, wHICH IS REALLY GREAT,
sO PLEASE GO, aND LOOK THROUGH THEIR BLOG, iF YOU ARE FEELING DOWN,
oR FOLLOW, tO HAVE THE GOOD THINGS, sHOW UP ON YOUR DASHBOARDS, }:)

Anonymous asked:

Hey Tavros, As you probably know two males in a matespritship isn’t really the norm here on earth. Unfortunately I am one of the few who would like such a thing. While I like it I am also not ok with it sometimes and am kinda mean to myself about it. I just wanted to know if you had any advice on self acceptance and whatnot.

tHIS IS ONE OF THOSE EARTH THINGS, tHAT i HAVE A HARD TIME, uNDERSTANDING,
i MEAN, wHY IS THAT EVEN A PROBLEM,
i TRY TO BE, cULTURALLY SENSITIVE, bUT,
iT JUST SORT OF SEEMS SILLY, tO MAKE IT SUCH A BIG DEAL,

bUT IT IS REALLY IMPORTANT FOR YOU, tO KNOW SOME THINGS,
oNE IS THAT, yOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE KIND, tO YOU,
bECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONLY YOU THAT THERE IS, sO, yOU ARE REALLY SPECIAL,
aND THERE WILL NEVER EVER, bE ANOTHER YOU,
sO IF YOU DON’T TREAT YOURSELF, rIGHT,
tHEN YOU ARE, hURTING AN ENDANGERED SPECIES,
sORT OF,
oKAY, nOT REALLY, bECAUSE YOU ARE NOT ACTUALLY, a SEPARATE SPECIES,
bUT i HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND THIS, uH, aNALOGY,
eRR, oKAY LET’S, mOVE ON FROM THAT,
bUT YEAH YOU ARE, rEALLY IMPORTANT, sO DON’T MISTREAT YOURSELF,

aNOTHER THING IS THAT, yOU ARE NOT ALONE,
aND YOU WILL NEVER BE ALONE, iN ANYTHING THAT UPSETS YOU,
sOMEWHERE, tHERE IS SOMEONE ELSE, fEELING LIKE HOW YOU FEEL,
wHICH IS SORT OF SAD, bECAUSE WHEN YOU ARE SAD,
tHAT WOULD MEAN THAT, a LOT OF OTHER PEOPLE ARE SAD, tOO,
bUT IT CAN ALSO BE, pOSITIVE, i THINK,
bECAUSE THERE IS SOME REASSURANCE, tHAT YOU AREN’T ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD,
sO THERE IS NOTHING, wRONG WITH YOU, aT ALL,
aND IT MEANS THERE ARE PEOPLE, yOU CAN FIND, aND REACH OUT TO,
tHEN YOU CAN SUPPORT EACH OTHER,

tHE LAST THING IS THAT, tHERE WILL ALWAYS BE JERKS IN THE WORLD,
oKAY, tHAT ISN’T A GOOD THING,
bUT, uHH, sTAY WITH ME, fOR A SECOND,
i DON’T THINK THAT THERE WILL EVER BE A TIME, wHEN EVERY SINGLE PERSON IS ACCEPTED,
uNFORTUNATELY, }:(
bUT i DO BELIEVE, tHAT SOMEDAY, tHAT WILL BECOME THE MINORITY,
tHAT IS, nOT ACCEPTING PEOPLE BEING THE MINORITY,
aND THAT MOST PEOPLE WILL BE, oKAY, wITH EVERYONE,
tHAT DAY MIGHT NOT BE TODAY,
mAYBE IT WON’T HAPPEN FOR A LONG TIME,
bUT IF YOU AND ANYONE LIKE YOU, sTAY STRONG, aND STICK TOGETHER,
sOMEDAY A REAL CHANGE CAN HAPPEN,
lIKE IF YOU SEE SOMEONE, bEING BULLIED, yOU CAN STAND UP FOR THEM,
oR YOU SEE SOMEONE ON HERE, gETTING HATEFUL MESSAGES,
yOU CAN SEND THEM, aNONYMOUS COMPLIMENTS AND WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT,
iT SOUNDS, lIKE A REALLY SMALL THING TO DO,
bUT WHEN YOU MAKE OTHER PEOPLE FEEL GOOD, iT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD TOO,
aND WHEN EVERYONE IS FEELING GOOD, wELL,
tHEN YOU CAN ALL GO OUT AND, sPREAD THE GOOD FEELINGS,

oKAY, tO SUMMARIZE,
(i THINK THIS IS CALLED A, “tldr” ON EARTH,)
(aM i, uSING THAT CORRECTLY, i HOPE SO,)
bE NICE TO YOURSELF, bECAUSE YOU ARE THE ONLY YOU,
aND THEREFORE, tHE BEST OF ALL OF THE YOUS,
nEXT IS, tO REMEMBER YOU ARE NEVER ALONE, iN YOUR FEELINGS,
aND THAT YOU CAN, rEACH OUT TO OTHER PEOPLE LIKE YOU,
lAST IS, tO SPREAD HAPPINESS,
bECAUSE SPREADING HAPPINESS TO OTHERS, mAKE YOU FEEL GOOD,
aND IS ALSO JUST A GENERALLY GOOD THING TO DO,

Anonymous asked:

Tavros, first off thank you for making this blog <3 You are a beautiful troll for doing this. Okay my problem: You see there is this lovely girl who we both consider each other moirails, but sometimes I want to be more than a moirail to her. There is a slight age difference, only 2 years, I being the oldest. We dont get to see each other a lot, but I will have more chances once I move to her hometown for college. How should I tell her that I want to be more than a moirail to her? Thanks c`:

oKAY, fIRST i WANT TO SAY THAT,
i THINK THAT MAYBE, tHERE IS SOME SORT OF,
tIMELINE, tHING, gOING ON,
tHAT MAYBE MAKES MY ANSWERS, aPPEAR A LOT LATER THAN THEY WERE ASKED,
iN YOUR TIMELINES, aT LEAST,
sO i AM SORRY IF, uH, aNY OF THESE ANSWERS, aREN’T HELPFUL NOW,
bUT MAYBE THEY CAN, hELP OTHER PEOPLE IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS,
sO i AM STILL GOING TO, aNSWER THEM ALL, fOR THAT REASON,

nOW FOR THAT PROBLEM,
i THINK IT IS PROBABLY, bEST TO BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS,
bUT DON’T MAKE YOUR MOIRAIL FEEL, tRAPPED,
bECAUSE IF YOU SUDDENLY CONFESS RED FEELINGS,
sHE MIGHT THINK THAT, sHE HAS TO RETURN THEM, oR ELSE LOSE YOU,
oR WORSE,
sHE MIGHT WORRY THAT, yOU WON’T BE HAPPY, jUST STAYING MOIRAILS,
tHAT WOULD MAKE THINGS BETWEEN YOU TWO, aWKWARD, pROBABLY,
sO MAYBE JUST SAY THAT YOU, hAVE REDDER FEELINGS,
bUT DON’T PRESSURE HER TO, gIVE ANY SORT OF ANSWER TO THAT,
 
aND DON’T GO TOO LONG, wITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING TO HER,
bECAUSE IF SHE DOESN’T KNOW YOU ARE INTERESTED,
yOU MAY LOSE HER, tO SOMEONE ELSE,

jUST TRY TO BE AWARE THAT SHE MIGHT, nOT SEE YOU LIKE THAT TOO,
sO BE READY, fOR THAT POSSIBILITY,
aND i GUESS YOU SHOULD PROBABLY THINK, oF WHAT YOU WOULD DO,
cOULD YOU STILL BE MOIRAILS, oR EVEN FRIENDS,
dON’T PRESENT THIS IS A WAY, tHAT WOULD REALLY HURT, yOUR FRIENDSHIP,
iF THINGS GO BADLY, i MEAN,
wHICH IS WHY i SAID, bEFORE, tO NOT CORNER HER INTO AN ANSWER,
sHE MIGHT NEED SOME TIME, tO THINK THINGS OVER,
sO GIVE HER THE CHANCE, tO TAKE THAT TIME,